Financial Gifts: The Etiquette of Giving and Receiving Money
Financial Gifts:
The Etiquette of Giving and Receiving Money
Giving and
receiving money can be a delicate business, but if you know the right etiquette
you giving money as a gift can be simple.
As a kid, did you ever have a
relative that sent a check – or cash – for your birthday? While cash can’t
always replace a thoughtful gift (avoid giving $100 bills as an anniversary
gift, for example), there are times cash money is the most appreciated gift you
can give or receive. That said, here are a few rules of etiquette to follow
when giving – or receiving – a financial gift.quette When Receiving Money
Never Ask for Cash – First, if somebody asks
you what to get you, never say “cash”. The decision to give cash should always
be with the giver, never the recipient. Asking for financial gifts – no matter
how badly you would rather have some extra funds to pay the bills than a new
George Foreman Grill – makes you look greedy.
Show Your Appreciation – If you are lucky enough
to receive a cash gift – for your birthday or perhaps your wedding – thank the
giver for their generosity both at the time of the gift (if given in person),
and with a thank you note. Show equal appreciation for gifts large and small,
as a small gift from a peer on a limited budget may have been a bigger stretch
than a large check from a rich relative.
Follow Up on Large Gifts – If you receive an
especially large gift – generally over $1000 – perhaps for a specific purpose
like college tuition, graduation, or a wedding – it’s especially polite to send
additional thank you notes reiterating your appreciation and describing how
their gift has helped you. It’s almost like non-profit organizations provide
stewardship reports to donors describing how their charitable gifts are
well-spent.
Never Discuss Financial Gifts – Never disclose to anybody
else how much somebody gave. As with most financial matters, cash gifts should
be held confidential. For the recipient to talk about somebody’s cash gift is
insensitive, for a giver to talk about how much they gave is classless and
uncouth.
If You Protest, Do So Only Once – Finally, in the event of
a spontaneous “gift” – let’s say a friend wants to reimburse you for a favor
you provided them or reimburse your for gas or other expenses, it is perfectly
OK to decline the gift (if you wish), but only once. If the giver insists, then
graciously accept their offering without further protest.
Etiquette When Giving Money
For Whom is Cash Appropriate? – It is important to know
the etiquette regarding when – and for whom – cash is and is not appropriate as
a gift. Generally, it’s not cool to give financial gifts to your significant
other for any occasion. Personally, I also avoid giving cash to close friends
or family members, the exception being for major life events like weddings or
graduations.
How Much to Give? – One of the problems with
giving cash gifts is there is always the question of how much. The answer is
the amount that you can afford, and that you feel is appropriate. Never give
more than you can afford just because you think that’s what is expected of you.
For example, if you are going to a lavish wedding that you guess might have
cost the bride and groom $100 per head, don’t give $200 (for you and your
guest) if it strains your budget. By contrast, if you can easily afford $200,
don’t necessarily limit yourself to a $200 gift because you know that’s what
the wedding costs.
Cash can be an easy, straightforward gift for the
giver that the recipient will appreciate and put to good use. Just follow these
etiquette rules and give cash gifts with the peace of mind that doing so won’t
lead to an awkward situation.
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